Tabitha:
23 Short years.
Mother to Lily.
Lover of books & cute things & my Erics.
I'm a college student once again, bitches.
I complain a lot; you've been warned.
and that's what's up

the-real-seebs:

hussarviking:

NEVER trust an adult who won’t apologize to a child

Wow. I’d never seen it put that way, but. Wow. That is a really good piece of advice.

(Source: thunreswine)

Apr 16th at 10PM / via: sloppysecondthoughts / op: thunreswine / reblog / 41,591 notes

Look around your college classroom, spot the virgins.

See, this seems like a game until you skip over the girl with a short skirt and hair in front of her eyes because you heard last summer that she slept with like nineteen guys. You can’t see her hands, but they’re under the table, pulling a rosary through her fingers as she tries to wash the sin off her. She’s only ever kissed three people in her whole life and they’re all girls. She turned down the wrong guy and he told everyone she’s “a whore.” The label “slut” stuck to the bottom of her shoe and swallowed her up.

But that quiet girl who is always reading probably never touched someone else’s penis, you figure, because you don’t know that she goes home and strips down and pulls on tight black leather, you don’t know she’s got a set of whips that could make any set of knees quiver, you don’t know because she’s proud of what she does but she’s not stupid enough to let anyone know about it. She’s sexy, just not here, not where people judge.

See, the truth is: you have no idea who has lost their virginity, because it doesn’t change you. It doesn’t give you some kind of glow or superpower or stamp on your forehead. You know the feeling of waking up on your birthday and thinking “I don’t feel any older whatsoever”? That’s what maybe they’re all so afraid of you finding out: sex doesn’t change you. Sex doesn’t make you an animal, sex doesn’t suddenly make your relationship a million times more stable or intimate or romantic - it can’t fix what’s broken, although it can make the pain go away for a bit. Sex doesn’t really occur with eighty tea lights and a thick white rug. Sex is ugly and loud and frequently awkward, sex is excellent and breathtaking and when you wake up the next morning, you’re the exact same person. There’s not some magical connection with the person in bed beside you. Believe it or not, pregnancy isn’t some kind of punishment - but practice safe sex, get tested, don’t spread your germs around. They want to tell you, “Sex can ruin you” and I’ve heard that a lot as a little girl, that some boy would join me under my sheets and then dump me four days after, used, unhappy.

But I figured out that I’m not a fucking toy. Letting someone have sex with me is not letting them “use” me, because I’m not an object. My father said the issue lay in the fact “Men are insecure and need to know that they’re the best you ever had,” but I think that’s a steaming crock of absolute-wrong and if I didn’t tell the people I’m with how many others I’d slept beside, there would be literally no way for them to know my number, because I don’t rust, I don’t wear out, I don’t get bruised. I’m not a wilting fruit, I don’t go rotten.

But here’s the thing: some people connect sex and emotion. I don’t personally because I am probably secretly an ice storm in disguise, but I still respect my partner’s desires. If they’re the type to want love and sex to coincide, I let them. I don’t make fun, I don’t pull one-night-stands or friends-with-benefits, because it’s not their “reputation” I’m afraid for: it’s their heart I’m defending.

Here’s the thing: Instead of worrying about people’s “purity” and how it defines them as a person, worry instead about how you can protect other people’s emotions.

Because here’s the thing: look around your room and spot the virgins. Look harder. You can’t tell. Sex doesn’t alter people, it doesn’t make them act in a certain way nor dress in a certain manner. Sex and personality have nothing to do with each other. There’s a reason that virginity doesn’t show on someone’s face: because having sex doesn’t cause you to change.

"I lost my virginity to a boy I didn’t even love…" /// r.i.d (via inkskinned)
Apr 16th at 10PM / via: sempiternalmeds / op: inkskinned / reblog / 9,488 notes

you put up your defenses when you leaveyou leave because you’re certain of who you want to leaveyou’re putting up your armour when you leaveyou leave because you’re certain of who you want to be
you put up your defenses when you leave
you leave because you’re certain of who you want to leave
you’re putting up your armour when you leave
you leave because you’re certain of who you want to be

(Source: gideondevelliers)

Apr 16th at 5PM / via: thatsmrskristen / op: gideondevelliers / reblog / 21,897 notes

Just bought a new laptop. Windows 8 is scary. I totally sympathize with old people who hate technology. How did I end up so out of touch?

Apr 16th at 3PM / tagged: im old. / reblog / 4 notes

So, I didn’t write my poetry analysis last night…. I got cozy with Lily and passed out. Queen of procrastination here is gonna write it on campus today and slip it under my teachers door. I’m trying not to beat myself up over it. I just want to get it done and get a passing grade. I don’t care for this class at all. The teacher cackles at her own jokes and her lectures are awful. I just want to get through it, hopefully with a B so my GPA doesn’t go down.

lannistersex:

"THAT SHIRT WITH THOSE SHOES?"

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lannistersex:

"THAT SHIRT WITH THOSE SHOES?"

Apr 16th at 7AM / via: thehannahpapers / op: lannistersex / reblog / 29,545 notes

sadpretzel:

it started out with a kiss how did it end up like this

Apr 16th at 7AM / via: afternoonsnoozebutton / op: sadpretzel / reblog / 713 notes

religiousmom:

School just really sucks cause they take this wonderful concept of learning and discovering new things and just completely ruin it with the atmosphere of judgement and suppression of creativity and strict deadlines and basing your intelligence on a letter and wow you ruined it nice job

Apr 16th at 7AM / via: sempiternalmeds / op: religiousmom / reblog / 344,857 notes

deeeeaaan:

Game of Thrones Wedding Cake

oh yeah lets just have a game of thrones themed wedding

what can possibly go wrong?

Apr 16th at 7AM / via: drewhhr / op: misztervarju / reblog / 96,100 notes

thatonedemonwiththename:

savewilliamgraham:

sherlocksmyth:

savewilliamgraham:

sherlocksmyth:

i just want one text post just ONE where people add weird photos and gifs that can’t be explained but apparently that’s too much to ask for

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bless you for these sunglasses aliens

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Apr 16th at 7AM / via: drewhhr / op: sherlocksmyth / reblog / 70,604 notes

THE EXCUSE FOR THE MAJORITY OF MY POOR DECISIONS

howdoiputthisgently:

disembodiedangelfeet:

acciobong:

By “people,” I guess Neville thought Ron meant the Dark Lord.

Go big or go home

Apr 16th at 7AM / via: sempiternalmeds / op: acciobong / reblog / 194,058 notes

bens-supah-doopah-blog:

femininefreak:

Sex Education in American Public Schools

This is why we can’t have nice things

You make me so proud Louisiana.

Apr 15th at 9PM / via: them00n-andback / op: femininefreak / reblog / 71,341 notes
I am stressed out to the max, with school and my job paying me like poop and never seeing my kids. 

I came home to flowers, cards, and spaghetti. 

I love my family.

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I am stressed out to the max, with school and my job paying me like poop and never seeing my kids.

I came home to flowers, cards, and spaghetti.

I love my family.

Apr 15th at 8PM / tagged: Lily. Eric. Eric jr. family. / reblog / 4 notes